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Im so happy!

Well its been a bit of a shit year…some good times, and alot of bad times too.

But the past week I’ve realised just how short life is, and have started enjoying it! Since the kids have been away, I’ve been able to sit down and relax (mummy friends will understand how difficult that is when kids are involved), and think abut the future. I have been able to catch up with friends, go to the movies, go shopping and sleep in.

I’m loving the single life, and the freedom i have. Its been a huge change and I’m LOVING life alot. I have new friends that i can now hang out and socialise with, something I’ve never really been able to do.

I have new single mummy friends too!

NYE will be spent with Kirsten and Shari…and their 2 boys. I’m excited and cant wait, will be an awesome night :)

I would like to wish all my gorgeous friends and family a very Merry Christmas and a happy and safe 2011.

Christmas this year is a little odd. Craig has taken my babies to his mums house, whilst i stay home….Alone. I plan to spend my day with Shari, a lady i met via BB who has a son and no family in Australia. Should be a good day.

Sunday I’m off to the movies with Christine :)

Well the time has come. Craig and i have both agreed things are not going to work and my happiness is a priority. We have now called it a day and gone our own ways. We are the very best are friends and always well be. It has been an amazing 5 years, we have been through so much, but we cant carry on.

He has found a lovely brand new rental in Pakenham, so only 10-15 mins away so still able to visit. Starting next year he will also have them stay 3 nights every 2nd weekend to give me a break.

Break time

Whilst i don’t usually post very personal things on my blog, this time i am going to. Mainly cos it affects me as a whole and something i will look back on in 6-12 months time and either say it was the right choice, or a very big mistake.

What I’m talking about is my marriage situation. Craig and I are currently separated. This came as a huge shock to both our friends and family. I wont post details, but i will say it was myself who asked for the break. I needed to be on my own (well add 3 kids and 3 cats into the mix).

So far so good. I’m handling it well. i have my days with the kids where i think its all to hard, but i plough on and get through the day and night. The kids are slowly adjusting to the change of not having daddy here (who is staying with Cheyne at the moment and seeking a rental). He comes to visit for family dinner night on a Wednesday, and sees them 1-2 times through the week in the day time if he is in the area or needs to drop round for something.

I have a lot to think about over the coming months, and i hope i can get the right choice made!

That’s all i wish to post about right now :)