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On Monday 31st October Ben and i took the kids to Scienceworks. We had an awesome day even though Zachery chucked sooooo many tantrums and wouldn’t listen. Didn’t take many pictures and the ones i did take didn’t turn out to well..bummer

Happy belated 4th Birthday miss Jasmine Emily. We hope you had a fantastic day. Mummy sure knows you got very spoilt!

Congratulations to my friend Erin and her husband on the safe arrival of Flynn on Tuesday 18th October!

 

Get Away!!

On Thursday 13th October, Ben and i headed off on a lovely get away to NSW. First stop was Mark and Fi’s place in Narellan. Is was lovely to meet Ben’s brother and wife, and of course their gorgeous little girl, Milla. On the Friday we headed out on a tour of the area and out to Windsor to see numerous homes Ben has lived in.

Saturday we departed and headed to Forster, where his mum lives. Before arriving we stopped into Castle Towers where Ben bought me my birthday present, a brand new iPhone 4s….the newest and latest one out!!!!

Sunday we toured the town of Forster and spent time looking at the break wall. We spotted a whale so we went to various spots to keep watching it. That night we went to a friends home for dinner as it was Bens mums birthday.

Monday i was lucky enough to be able to catch up with Tiff, a lovely lady i had only spoken to online when i was pregnant with Jasmine. Was great to finally meet her.

Tuesday we went driving and looked at tourists spots. Was a great day and alot of ‘nature walks’.

Wednesday we headed off to Mudgee to stay with my folks. When we arrived, Rhiannion and Brendan were both there, SICK!

Thursday we went driving around the town, off some road that lead to a real country bumpkin town.

Friday…ARGHHHH i woke up sick with the gastro bug, as did Dad and Renee. Ben decided not to tempt fate and took off to Dubbo to see my friend Kayla. Mum went to visit Nan, and later came home sick as well!

Saturday i was feeling a bit better, Benm and i went down town to do some shopping and had lunch with Mum, Dad, Renee, Rhiannon and her boyfriend Nathan.

Sunday we left Mums. We stopped in Dubbo for a quick visit to Kayla and i was also able to stop in to see Nan and spend an hour or so with her. As the day wore on we were getting pretty tired so stopped in Wagga Wagga. We stayed in the glorious place called The Manor. It had a huge spa and a king bed…was very nice!!

Monday we arrived home, and slept all afternoon!!

Dear my sweet angel, Melanae Lily,

Today mummy is celebrating what would have been your first birthday. Not a day goes by that i don’t think about what we are missing out on together. Your smiles, your giggles and if you’re like Chelsea, your constant chatting.

Its a hard day, no one will remember it, but ive dreaded this day for weeks. Ill never forget your birthdays or the date we said goodbye.

So Melanae, party hard in the clouds above

Love Mummy xx

 

 

My good friend Megan and her husband welcomed a beautiful baby girl into their family yesterday. Their Princess Lucy is devine and so cute!

 

Its been 6-7 long months that Ive had to bite my tongue over a certain person and matter, but i cant do it any longer. More so, since this person has tried to cause trouble yet again

Let me go waaaay back to the beginning. I met this person, this ‘nice’ girl when i was pregnant with Zachery, so 2008 we first came into contact. We spoke via a forum but also MSN and SMS. It was when her son was around 4 months old, we met in person and hit it off. It was lovely to have a friend who also had a son the same age as my own baby. Her son was born 9 days before Zachery.

Over the next 2 years we kept in contact, often catching up, or having her and her son come stay over so she could escape her parents whom she lived with. We always had a good time, girly nights once the kids were asleep, shopping and good laughs.

It was January/February this year that changed everything.  Ben and this person were also friends. She admitted to me one night whilst staying over she had a thing for him. Just what i needed, someone else after the man i had feelings for and loved.  This was the start of things to come.

Im basing this post on Ben’s side of the story.

She told Ben she wanted another baby. Jokingly Ben told her to go off the pill, and get knocked up then. Of course there were a few ‘encounters’ between the two of them.

Come March/April, i dunno when, im still pissed off big time, she SMS’s me saying there’s something she needs to tell me. It was, that she was pregnant. When asked who was the father of the baby, she claimed a guy named Rob. Little did i know, she had also messaged Ben claiming HE was the father. One problem there, Ben is medically infertile and no possible way to father a child, let alone her baby. Back and forths the messages went, i was getting “No Ben isn’t the dad” yet Ben was getting “It has to be you”.

This went on for ages, it caused the biggest strain on Ben and I, as by then, we were together as a couple rather then just good friends. We would fight, i would question myself if he really could be the dad despite 2 IVF sperm tests all confirming negative results of any viable sperm.

I decided to shut this person out of my life and drop the friendship. Ben continued talking to her.

Rob was told of the baby who very quickly said he cant be the father as he is sterile. So we now have 2 guys, both infertile??? Must have been a magical conception then.

Little does the person know, she tells Ben alot and of course he tells me. Its been revealed that the week she moved in to her shack (refuse to call it a home cos its not, its a garage with a few walls knocked up and 1 window in the whole place, no laundry or even a stove/oven) she slept with 5 guys in 7 days. God knows if she used condoms.

I do laugh though, she claims she used condoms but it failed and that’s how she got pregnant. Not the truth of she stopped the pill and this pregnancy was conceived on deception!!! The story now is she stopped the pill for a week as she was changing meds.

Anyway, back to the story. So in July she comes over to our house, turns out her child (which is later confirmed to be a boy) has heart and spine problems. She is advised a termination should be considered. A few weeks later the heart problems disappear (im guessing a sympathy plea was what she was after) but the spine problems are there and he will need to be in a brace later in life.

All the while she is still trying to push the idea Ben is the dad. I had a phone call with her and abused shit out of her and she kept saying sorry and that she never meant to cause problems between Ben and I and that she now knows Ben isnt the father.

Move forward to Friday of last week. Her best friend, Kylie, starts accusing Ben of pretty much knocking her up and leaving her unsupported etc. It turns out that this person has been telling Kylie (and god knows how many other people) that Ben IS the father still. Ben was furious and i wont repeat how i was feeling.

I just couldn’t help myself. I had to post something on Facebook. I left names out. She knew exactly who i was talking about. The very next day i posted something else. She promptly removed me from her friends list and told Ben to ‘Keep his gf on a leash’.

In conclusion. Ive now removed her from my life, never to speak with her again. All i can hope for is that her baby gets the care he needs. She has been selfish from day one and let her wants come before the health of her baby and also of her son she already has.

 

So who is this person….i will reveal her first initial as K

Im dreading the 8th October. It would have been Melanae’s 1st birthday. I know no one will remember the day, and that’s ok, but she will forever live on in my memory. I look at her name in the sand photos every morning when i wake and before i go to sleep

Oh man, my day turned to shit, just after 930am today.

You see, i was driving to the kids place, munching on some breaky, that being bread and marg when CRUNCH. What in the world was that i thought to myself. On closer examination it looked like a bit of tooth. I immediately began feeling my teeth with my tongue but every tooth seemed ok. Well until i ran my tongue along my bottom teeth and discover one of my molars was missing a chunk :(

God dammit my tooth now has a chunk missing. I called the public dental clinics to see if they could help. They could IF i was in pain, sensitive to hot/cold or had ulcers forming. Instead, im now on a waiting list til they can see me.

My Babies!

Not posted a pic of my terrors lately so i best do it….ive borrowed this from Craigs Facebook!